Marriage Analysis

br another(prenominal)hood is one of the major rights of passage in life. It is a change of status that involves all the emotional baggage that comes with such changes. Marriage is one of the few rights of passage that I, myself puzzle chosen to undertake. Once my fianc? and I made the desciscion to get married, the next step was to plan the wedding. The first affaire I had to do was to set a date. Choosing a date was not a simple task, considering I had to keep in mind of family commitments, other events, the length that some guests had to travel, and weather conditions.I k untried that I wanted to be a summer bride, so I heady the best duration would be around labor day. It would be the end of the summer, and a new beginning for me. Next, I went to the library and checked out all the books that I could find on weddings. I read each one carefully and took notes. Also I asked family members and friends about their own weddings. I asked questions about everything from weddings d resses to blossoming arrangements. The Internet was also is very informative. I logged onto the Internet and read legion(predicate) interesting stories about other people and their weddings.The third problem that I had to face was, What kind of wedding do I want? I had to choose from an ultra-formal, formal, semiformal, or informal. Determining how formal the wedding is to be willing is to be would help establish the overall wedding strategy. The level of formalities determines, to a great extent, the overall cost of the wedding. I chose the formal layout, which is the nearly typical wedding format Then there is finding a ceremony settle. Since most of our friends are in North Carolina, we decided to nurture it here and not in Texas where my fianc? s raised. I decided to arrive the ceremonies held in the church that I grew up in.Choosing a ceremony site was not that hard, since I also decided that the reception also would be held at the church. The next thing was choosing t he participants. I chose my sisters and friends for brides maids. My niece and little cousin would be the flower girls. Next, I went and asked each one to participate in the wedding, at which time they very gladly accepted. Choosing a wedding gown would be the hardest task. I saw so many gowns the were so beautiful.First, I decided how oftentimes I wanted to spend on the gown. Then, I had to chose the desireness that would be the best for me. So after going to one-hundred different shops, and some(prenominal) wedding shows, I picked the gown that most made me feel like Cinderella. Next, came the hiring of the musician, the catering, photographer, and florist. I was fortunate enough to find the One Stop Shop. They were extremely recommended. At the One Stop Shop, they do it all. With the combination of services that they provided, I was exhilarated to learn that they had reasonable pricing.Sending out the invitations is the second-to-last event that compulsory to be planned. Th e Invitations are to be mailed approximately four to six-spot weeks prior to the wedding. The envelopes are to be hand addressed in sign matching the printed ink on the invitation itself. Finally, the planning of the honeymoon. The key is to plan onwards and make every minute count. I decided on a week in Hawaii would be the means to get much needed rest. After planning a wedding, the only thing I can say is, Thank God I only have to go through this once